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what is the best tattoo to get to represent my fiance without getting his name?

i am 18 and he is the father of my baby girl :)
sorry i forgot to add i am already getting my babys name.
her name is alexandria.

  1. Tree
    July 24th, 2011 at 15:32 | #1

    I know you’re always going to be connected because of your baby, but please wait a while before getting the tattoo. 18 is so young that you don’t realize how much things could easily change in 1,2, 5, or 10 years.

    My husband branded a small heart on his wrist when he was 19 and depressed (before we dated). At age 30, I decided to get a heart tattooed on my wrist to show that we’re not alone. This was after 10 years together, 7 of which married. He had also just tattooed his wedding band on, since he hates wearing rings and lost 2 of them.

    When you do get the tattoo, I would get something meaningful and symbolic, but also simple. Only you will know what that is.

  2. gigglez
    July 24th, 2011 at 15:32 | #2

    his last name or the first letter of his name in chinese

  3. TRU7H
    July 24th, 2011 at 15:32 | #3

    get something dealing with your daughter, she represnts both you and him at the same time . :)

  4. mandie
    July 24th, 2011 at 15:32 | #4

    don’t do it get your babies name instead or symbolize something for her

  5. Joe
    July 24th, 2011 at 15:32 | #5

    Talk to him about something that you believe represents your relationship. It could be something you had around you when you met, or something you both have a very good interest in.

  6. Lightstep
    July 24th, 2011 at 15:32 | #6

    That is definitely a tricky one. Perhaps something that interests him, or a symbol that you associate with him. Or something to do with your little girl that can also represent him.

    It’s very hard to recommend, seeing as I don’t know either of you, lol

  7. Chelsea
    July 24th, 2011 at 15:32 | #7

    get your daughters name
    or is there something that reminds you of him or think about him you could get tatted. id do your daughters name, she is part of him and she will always be your daughter

  8. alisongiggles
    July 24th, 2011 at 15:32 | #8

    A heart with his initials inside. If 30 years from now you aren’t still with him you could have the heart filled in with a darker solid colour.

    Sorry to seem pessimistic but when you get together these days the odds are definitely not in your favour, especially if you’re marrying so young.

    I do wish you all the best of luck though :D

  9. Self Esteemed
    July 24th, 2011 at 15:32 | #9

    -the initial of his middle name (if he has one)
    -his favorite animal,sports team,ect.
    -the date of your anniversary with him

  10. Mystique
    July 24th, 2011 at 15:32 | #10

    You could get his chinese horoscope picture tattooed. You could get it in your own style, not just the standard looking boring picture. I wouldn’t get actual chinese writing unless you are fluent.

    You could get his birth co-ordinates, along with your daughters & yours (like Angelina did for her kids)

  11. LADYRIDAH-awomansplaceisonhrbike
    July 24th, 2011 at 15:32 | #11

    Honestly…to get something this soon and you’re not yet married…? Hmmm….no. Get your daughter’s name – that’s it. Trust me…I’ve been married for nearly 20 years and have my dog’s pic tatted on my arm. But nothing regarding my hubby. (Dog got killed 2 yrs ago & it crushed me). I may get hubby’s name tatted one day. perhaps when we celebrate 25 years together. Not sure. You are too young BUT VERY wise in NOT wanting to get his name tatted. Just go with your daughters for now.

  12. Bianca
    July 24th, 2011 at 15:32 | #12

    If you are absolutely certain that you want something on your body that may remind you later of someone (since sometimes the impossible seems to happen, I’ve been left heartbroken by men who I knew I’d be with forever), I’d go with either a kanji symbol of something you call him. You could also go with something you both like; i.e. dragons if you both like it. Or maybe something that reminds you of his personality. Beautiful but ferocious, a tiger; sweet and cuddly, a teddy bear, ect. Hope you can find something! =)

  13. wilt730
    July 24th, 2011 at 15:32 | #13

    Have his initials hidden in some other design like i have a rose on my foot and hidden inside the rose is JMO (my nieces initials) i didn’t want go all out and get them in plain sight so i had then hidden, this way if you guys god forbid don’t work out of something then you Still have a beautiful design

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